Don't Miss a Great Date Because You Missed the Signals: A Throwback Dating Tip
When it's been a while since you've dated, it’s easy to overlook the subtle cues that show someone is interested. And sometimes, that means missing out on a great date—simply because you missed the signals!
You exchanged numbers (amazing! 🎉), but then...the messaging dropped off. Sound familiar? One of the biggest reasons this happens is because neither person provided clear next steps.
How to Keep the Momentum Going
If you're navigating dating over 40, dating over 50 websites, or even dating over 60, knowing how to read and respond to these signals can make all the difference. Here’s what to look out for
For the Guys: Take the Lead & Provide Options
She’s already given you a green light—maybe she’s hinted at wanting to meet for a drink or responded positively to your suggestion. Now, it’s your move.
✅ What to do next: Provide 2-3 options for where and when to meet. For example:
"I’d love to grab a drink with you! Are you free Friday at 7 PM at XYZ Lounge, or would Saturday afternoon work better?"
✅ If she doesn’t confirm right away: Give it one gentle nudge:
"Hey, just checking in—still up for that drink? Let me know what works for you!"
When you take initiative, she’ll likely follow. If she’s genuinely interested, she’ll respond with enthusiasm!
For the Ladies: Make It Easy for Him to Take the Next Step
When he expresses interest in getting together or setting up a time to connect, that’s your cue to provide availability.
✅ What to do next: Instead of leaving things open-ended, make it easy for him by offering 2-3 times that work for you. For example:
"That sounds great! I’m free Thursday at 6 PM, or Sunday afternoon if that works better for you."
This makes planning effortless and gives him a clear signal that you’re interested.
Keep the Connection Moving Forward
In dating over 50 or dating over 60, timing and communication are key. If you're both interested but no one is leading the conversation toward an actual date, things can fizzle out before they even begin.
So, don’t miss a great date because you missed the signals—read the cues, take action, and make it happen!
Happy Dating!
❤️ Megan
